Every Moment Life Turns!

We all know we are humans and the only specie on the planet that has a skill to bring a Change in any possible thing.
But! A four letter word, “LIFE”, could be a small word but it is bigger than what anyone could imagine! It’s bigger than You, Me or anything else created by the almighty!

Life can’t be defined by any means; it can just be experienced and then learn about it. Life is about many things which one encounters throughout its span and one of the components without which none has lived the life is “Relation”
Everything created by nature is interlinked and everyone is dependent on other by some or the other means. When we relate us individually with everything around we see that we are connected with a Chain of other’s which could be in any form. We can also relate this with a spider web, as each of its string is attached to another and that helps the Spider to move around the area. As we grow up we depend on nature, parents, friends, relatives and this connection is called RELATION!

When you die people tend to forget your face but not your deeds, or how have you been with them, we spoil relations coz of our Ego’s, fear of rejection, insecurities and not able to built trust. It’s been a trend that when the other side person knows your weakness they tend to exploit you or use you in some way or the other.

The reason is The Person doing such thing enjoys the moment as it might had happened with him as well, the person will take a revenge from the rest of the world thinking that if he cant stay happy why should the other person be! This practice is prevailed as the society forces that person to be like that.

It’s due to our Ego’s we all try to run away from our own souls as we feel humiliated admitting our mistakes, we don’t want people to hurt us, we don’t want anyone to use us. We feel that that we are just standing in the corner not knowing what’s happening around, we strive for every possible thing but then we land up in the bin being a thrash, we all want to be the centre of attraction as we think that people hear us every time, and see you strive and then we wait for rewards & recognition, but we don’t confess this in front of anyone, as by telling our weakness we will not get anything which is materialistic.

Today, each one of us is running towards success but in achieving the goal we forget few people who have been special in our life’s, we forget the importance of those people in our life’s, we forget that the actual possession is a “RELATION”. We become so selfish that we don’t see anyone with us at the end. All us will get success one day but that doesn’t mean that we stop valuing anyone’s feelings, the person whom you love the most thinking that this person is different from other will change one day and that is just because of the selfish attitude we all have in our self’s.

Relationships are difficult to sustain but very easy to break them, its just how we take on the things. Could come to a conclusion saying its all about “PERCEPTIONS”, but then why do we built wrong ones? Why do we run away? Why aren’t we satisfied internally? Which is the thing which we will take with ourselves when we DIE? Are we just living for ourselves or for others? Are we really happy?

Still looking for a reason behind it and I hope before I die I will find answer’s to this.

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5 Responses to “Killing a Relation or Yourself?”

  1. Hemant Kapur says:

    Nice article. World in which we people live r inter-linked and connected to each other, is all God’s game of Life.

  2. Varun Gandhi says:

    But Still, we can just write and do our deeds, dont know if something will change from our words! Hopes are high and hope is a strategy of life :)

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